Anonymous asked: What is something that guys should work on when looking to go out with a girl?
DO NOT BE PUSHY. When it comes to anything. The thing I hate most about guys is when they’re pushy. Pushy to talk, pushy to fuck, whatever. Let her decide. If she likes you and is into it, she’ll go for you. Otherwise, you’ll just make her uncomfortable and resentful.
Anonymous asked: When was your first kiss, first fuck, last fuck?
First kiss- 15 y/o, first fuck- 17 y/o, last fuck- saturday afternoon.
Anonymous asked: If I had to take one book with me to read on my next long-haul flight what would you suggest?
I would suggest Lunar Park by Brett Easton Ellis or something old and Russian because I would have a lot of time to concentrate.
Anonymous asked: Do those dancer shoes hurt your feet after you have been in them for a while?
Yes. But you get used to it. I barely notice any more, but every so often my baby toes act up, and I have bone spurs in between my pinky toes and the ones next to them from the shoes that sometimes hurt really fucking bad.
Anonymous asked: Why so you call yourself Kate Hate?
When I was in college I was a total asshole when I would drink/use drugs, which is why I don’t do either anymore (except and occasional drink). My friends started calling me that. Plus, rhyming is fun.
Anonymous asked: What’s your fave type of dancer shoe and what size do you wear?
Pleaser motif’s in 7inch and I wear a size 7. I’ve already collected the money, lace and cupcake print ones.
fuckablezombie asked: Favorite places online to get bras/knickers/stockings/et cetera. Cliched question I know but when I’m done with my word count for the day I windowshop on the interwebs. 
I am the worst person to answer this question lol. I buy most of my out of work stuff from H&M, Rainbow, Deb, Joyce Leslie and the like. Sometimes my sugar daddy takes me here: http://www.renerofe.com/ when he is in town because they have sexy shit and the outlet store is really cheap and I don’t go over my spending limit for the day very quickly. I also buy my work stuff from above place and an outfit lady that comes to me at the club. Underwear is the one thing I will leave the house to buy. I buy all my clothes either online or at the mall when my S.D. is in town because I’m agoraphobic and don’t like to be alone when I go out. Strange for a stripper, huh?
jesterproductions asked: How was your day?
It was actually pretty great. I wore a new outfit, conquered my agoraphobia for a few hours and got some things done outside the house. I also got a shout out for an email I wrote to and a follow from Coke Talk, who I think is real cool. I listed to Tyler the Creator almost all day and Zac was nice to me. Thanks for asking, how was yours?
Anonymous asked: What is your favorite thing to talk about at work?
What music I’m going to dance to, and learning how to do booty tricks.
I have a question. I stopped dancing for almost three years and I need to return while I am going back to school. My family totally villified the profession and I said I would burn in hell and I would be homeless- blah, blah, blah; well I developed panic disorder- Any advice on this? Do you know girls who have experienced anxiety over this job and have overcome this? Thanks!
I’m sorry it took me so long to see this comment. I actually have really bad panic disorder. What seems to help me is to concentrate on my breathing and get some fresh air. Another thing I find helps is drinking water (sipping it) while I’m having an episode and putting a cold compress on the back of my neck or my pulse points. I also realize it isn’t a forever job and that there’s parts of it that I like- fuck what everyone else says. I promise you won’t burn in hell or be homeless. If you need support, find me on twitter- @misskatehate or on tumblr, my username is misskatehate on there too.
I never thought of it that way, well put!