Thank you for your comments and questions.

My approach to shooting anyone, individuals, couples, etc.., is to combine both approaches. Typically, before a shoot, I like to talk with my participants. I try to explain how I work, what I am hoping to have as a result, and all the other model/photographer details like payment, contracts, use of images, etc.

The goal is to come to a mutual understanding so both the participants and myself are comfortable and ready to proceed. In these discussions, and particularly in the case of this couple, the goal is not to dictate precise outcomes. My goal is to capture something real and emotional. I don’t want to fake it, so there is a lot of latitude for the participants to explore that territory within certain, pre-defined parameters.

During the session, I usually inject my own ideas and preferences as things are proceeding. I do this subtly, not invasively. I don’t say “CUT!!” and break the mood, but I might whisper or signal with hand gestures to get the participants to react a certain way. Granted, this is much easier with an individual model. When you have a couple and especially in this case, I was very wary of disturbing their rhythm.

In terms of my aesthetic, what I am really aiming for in my work is more of a voyeuristic perspective. My work has always been about revealing private or secret moments. Those type of images come from moments of comfort and trust. When I feel that, I shoot.

Thanks again, always a pleasure.

Otto

I find that when I shoot couples of all persuasions, that once I get over the privilege of shooting such intimate exchanges, that there is still the hard work ahead of actually capturing those pictures that represent one’s own aesthetic. To shoot couples is a gift; yet I’ve found it’s tricky to shape the material into one’s signature image voice.